was listening to alan streaming... he said something that is true... when ur partner starts stopping doing lil things like picking u up from school or work or even stop seeing you everyday like he used to, doesnt mean that he dun love u anymore.. it just could mean that he might be tired at times... being understanding in a relationship is important.. so is communication, trust, being confident of ur partner and yourself...
i wouldnt say that i am the perfect partner, but after all these years i have learnt to be more understanding... but it takes 2 hands to clap.. for example... the relationship between mr a, miss b and mr c.... miss b tries her best to be understanding, caring, give mr a alot of space, trying hard to make the relationship work.. but mr a just couldnt commit to miss b no matter how hard she tries... mr a might know that miss b truly loves him.. but he just cant bring himself to commit to her... the corny thing is he doesnt tell her straight... when given a chance to be honest and truthful he ops to tell her things like.. u are a nice girl, i know u truly loves me.. but i am not ready for a relationship... when he knows that she clearly knows that there is someone else in his heart.... and another question to ask mr a... y does he wants to get miss b back when he knows that he cant commit and break her heart again? y ask her to start afresh again? was it because he wants someone to be there but cant handle the fact that she truly loves him? seems pointless to know rite? you might ask y miss b loves mr a and is unwilling to let him go? she wouldnt be able to come up with an answer... IMHO if miss b can come up with any reason y she loves him, then it wouldnt be true love... cuz when someone is in love with a person, that someone wouldnt be able to give an explaination at all... i truly believe that, if that someone is able to come up with a reason, i doubt that the someone truly loves the person... i might be wrong in my beliefs.... now back to our story.... the best part of all is miss b is willing to take all of mr a when she knows that the fickled minded mr b will have himself leaving her eventually with another heartbreak. only reason is because she loves him and hoping that he will love her in return... now all miss b can do is to leave mr a alone and not to pressure him anymore... it doesnt mean that she dun love him anymore just that she wants him to be happy...
and mr c comes along and truly loves miss b... but miss b just cant bring herself to accept mr c no matter how hard he tried... isnt this the most cruel joke that fate can play on someone like miss b who truly wants a simple relationship that she is truly being loved by someone?
in conclusion, love has no reason no matter how fucked one is theres always somebody for everyone.. last but not least fate is but an idiot who likes to play cruel jokes on just abt anyone.
