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Monday, June 13, 2005

SEX and the ching ching ching

I was watching SATC, came across the part where Carrie wanted to experience having sex like a man - no strings attached. And at the same time, I came across a blog of a SPG - thats what she calls herself in blogspot. Http://sarongpartygirl.blogspot.com , there this particular blogger was talking abt having sex with no strings attached. I agree with her to some extend. How could anyone just randomly pick up some strangers and have sex?

I do too get guys who want to get into my pants or into my panties as Cecilia would say. When dealing with these indecent proposals, I would tell the person off in a way that I do not embarass him, but if he still doesn't get the hint, then he is out to get some seriously bruised ego. I have to admit that I am a cock-teaser at times, as Bernerd has been repeating this for god knows how many times; "You are such a tease!" Ofcourse its fun and perfectly alright if I know that I wouldn't get into any trouble. Then again, as my male counterparts have been telling me; as long as the woman looks okay, average body they wouldn't reject her advances.

Its not a secret that men need rules, they will respect females whom they know they will get a penalty, if they tried to be funny. If a girl just goes around throwing herself at every men she meet, then its just wrong kinda attention she is seeking. But then, I also have decent guy friends who is not at least interested in getting into my pants. Nope they are not gays, just guys that are decent and simply think that there's more to life than getting into pants (rare near extinct species of men).

Some women I know use sex as a tool to get what they want, I came across someone who actually asked her husband if she could sleep with her boss to get a promotion! (gotto give it to her there... At least she asked!)And even Paris Hilton mentioned she would sleep her way up to success! While others are just using sex to make themselves feel loved - what a load of bullshit! Men dun necessarily love you when they are doing the deed, they just wanna get laid. Okay guys, lets be honest here, how many times do you think you even love someone seriously before getting them into bed with you?

To me getting on with someone whom I dun have any feelings for is simply out of the question, and even if I like him, I gotto know that he really cares for me before even considering. Talk is free, action speaks louder than words. Maybe being a man is good after all, they can get call girls as and when, screw any random girls out to look for that being loved feelings and dump them afterwards. Can women ever have sex like a man? I dun think so, at least it doesn't work that way for me. If any girl wants men to have respect for them, then they should reflect upon themselves.

Let's face it men or women, we both like sluts; men like them cuz they can easily get into their pants, women like them to certain extend because of the gossips until those sluts touch their men. Considering sluts, what about man-whores? Women who are always available for sex for random men are being labelled as sluts, how about men who go screwing around? Shouldn't those men be labelled something as well? Yeh to me they are man-whores - men who go around whoring themselves.

The freaking sad thing is men think they they can buy everything with $$, I do admit that most of the time if someone can afford the price he can get any women they want. Yeh so in short $$ can buy LOVE.. I think such men are losers; big time losers; if you make someone like or even love you because you have abit of $$$. I really feel sorry for those guys, those girls are just simply inlove with the ching ching ching, not the person.

Oh what about me? Ofcourse! (I shall be very frank here) I love presents! You can buy me LOTS and LOTS of presents, but You can never ever buy me!

Guys will give whatever you want if you can provide them with what they need - moonface slut gf of ah bui!