Should I Stay Or Should I Go?

When it comes to a point in the relationship where it is not about forgiving & forgetting, but its plainly about letting go or hanging on, which side will you go at this t junction?

Some people will say that it only take a coward to shy away and let go of what one truly desire, while other say it's stupid to be hanging on to someone whose heart is no longer there in the relationship. First thing that comes into my mind is what if the person's heart is no longer in the relationship but elsewhere? By pestering on, wouldn't it make one like a pest to the person whose heart is no longer there and its a major turn off and would certainly make the person dislike you more. But wait... If you are not persistent, how would this person know that you are really serious / sincere and want him/her badly?

While all these thoughts are battling in my head, another question comes to mind. What if I fell for someone else while being in a relationship, what will I do? The truth is it's easier to bullshit than to explain. But I would not be the one who bullshit, I will tell my partner frankly that I fell for someone else. I will also tell him what's wrong with the relationship that led me to stray. I reckon that this is fairer to the other party and to me I rather my partner tell me the truth that he strayed rather than giving me crap excuses like "it's not you, it's just me. I don't know what I want" when it is very obvious that the excuse is just but a cover up for straying.

Some of my friends told me that it is hard to digest if their partnet strayed and told them the truth. Yes, it might be cruel and hard to digest, wouldn't it be worst if their partner had lied in the first place and they had to ask repeatedly before the truth is out? Why would people want to live in denial, have false hopes about something that do not belong to them anymore?

Maybe this quiz is true.. I am selfish, I do not want to be a sucker and neither would I want to be dishonest about my feelings. Last thing I want is to be a lying bitch who is dishonest to the person I once felt for.

How You Are In Love

You take a while to fall in love with someone. Trust takes time. In relationships, you tend to be a bit selfish. You tend to get very attached when you're with someone. You want to see your love all the time. You love your partner unconditionally and don't try to make them change. You stay in love for a long time, even if you aren't loved back. When you fall, you fall hard.

How Are You In Love?