| Your Love Life Secrets Are |
 Looking back on your life, you will have many true loves. You're a little scarred from your past relationships, but who isn't? It's important to you that your lover is very attractive. You like to have someone to show off. In fights, you are able to walk away and calm down. You are able to weather the storm. Break-ups can be painful for you, but you never show it. You hold your head high. |
Looking at this personality test it reminded me of what I was gonna to blog when Blogger was down. I remember having a discussion with Fatty boy on ego one has on a relationship, what makes that person unable to get out of the sticky situation. To fatty, it simply means if u have an ego issue, then just go and not think about it and it solves all the problem. If its that simple to let go it would not be called an ego issue rite? To be caught having an ego issue after a break up simply means one cannot let go of the ex simply not because of the very deep love that he/she has for that person.
So what consitutes to an ego issue in a broken up relationship? It is when you can't get over the fact that someone like that(not up to ur standards, when u treated that person with so much care and due respect) taunt you. The basic instinct of wanting to conqure the person arises, wanting to get back by getting this person back and only to dump him/her. The wanting to make this person come back and treat you with the same respect you have shown towards.
Well, lets face it.. When a relationship is over, its over... No doubt it is painful to end something that might have been with lots of sweetness involved. But isn't dragging it on when it has soured more painful? something to think about.....
Next lets look at this scenerio, one will definitely feel better being the first to move on into another relationship, or even being able not to think about what has happened, letting the wounds heal slowly... It happened to me with my ex D.
It was raining heavily that day, I was out of the office running some errands, even thou we have broken up but still remained as friends, so was chatting over icq, there I was grumbling about the heavy rain and how I got drenched. And he was making fun of me (couldnt remember the exact conversation), and one thing led to another, soon he was talking about how he was hurting still deep inside of him, and I could just shrug it off like that. I mean what should I do? He was the one who has initiated the breakup, I let him go sensing that he was unhappy. The least that I could do was to move on and try to let wounds heal. And bearing in mind that it was 6mths after our breakup. The least I expect was the person who has initiated the break up to be sane and not crying out loud that he is still hurting inside and that I could shrug it off like that. I mean I have my struggles too (how was he to know that I was not affected? I'd rather keep it to myself and heal over time) I burried myself in loads of work and drinks after work. Afterall, I have come to terms that we have major communications issues - (could not even communicate eye to eye had to sms each other when we r just sitting next to each other.. How sad can a relationship get?)
Things got reverse as we agreed to talk after he comes back from his vacation, the talk never take place and this time round he could "shrug" it off as thou nothing happened... This come to show one thing, it always feels good when being the first person to get over a relationship. Even thou wounds might have healed on the outside I do admit that I have never truly recover on the inside from this episode.
| You Are 68% Evil |
 You are very evil. And you're too evil to care. Those who love you probably also fear you. A lot. |
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