Then the next thing I knew was that my head was feeling heavy and my body aching.. So took a train to Queenstown and got dad to pick me up. There and then in the car I started my 2 days of hibernation. After that I woke up drowsy and met up with my Jie mei - Kevin the vain pot for coffee for "Sisterly bonding cum Salad time"
Was doing some research on how much I should put in the red packet for my friends wedding. Even thou its couple of months away I reckon that I should be doing some maths, in an event that I would die alone and poor.. (Hiaks! Scary thot!) Been in and out of the dating scene since my first boyfriend? MmMMmmm..... When was that? Oh wells... Kevin & I were lounging at coffee bean @ JP as usual, bitching, whining about everything under the skies when we touched on the dating scene in Singapore.. Its the same with everywhere... For example with D.G in Singapore, we'd go hang out at cafes, drive to changi airport look at planes taking off and landing... In perth we'd go hang out at the malls, movies, cafes. The occassional drive to the country, but how many times can we go or rather do we really want to drive...
It's basically the same anywhere in the world I guess, but prolly Singaporeans are more caught up with the "I have to work tomorrow" idea. So what if I have to work the next day? I still go partying (with moderation ofcourse) during the week, enjoy my sweet intoxicating drinks (no driving) shaking my ass to the rhythm of whatever is being played in the club, or if I opted for a quieter night, I might just meet up with my pals for couple of drinks before heading home and crash for the night. But it's true that some of the guys that who have dated me has the same problem, they just dunno where to go, so I get kind irritated when people asked me out and then ask me where to go, I do have lotsa of ideas but... Bleah! You are the one who asked me out remember? DUH?!
I reckon its not the activity, it about the company, the Kind of quality that time spent together that matters most I guess.. Then this came into my mind, something that has always bugged me for the longest time. Is it true that couples can only go through happy times, not rough ones? For riches not poor?
Does bread really come before love? Bread is important, but I really do not think that a couple's relationship can rely soley rely on material alone, so what if a guy is super rich but yet I cannot stand the sight of him? I believe in living within my means, if I cannot afford a porsh car then so be it, get a normal one or even go on public transport. I do not have to live in a 30000sq feet house, a HDB apartment will do fine, afterall I have been living in one most of my life. Ofcourse I will not deny that being able to afford a porsh car and a nice private apartment or even a house is a bonus; just a bonus not a must. If I really have to take abuses to live in a nice house, drive a nice car, I rather do without all that. Afterall who can resist a gentleman who treats his love ones with respect and love with all his heart. I'm sure most girls will not say no if the guy is rich and loves a girl with all his heart that is ofcourse the most ideal scenerio. But how often does a fairy tale happen?
Look at Princess Diana... Something to think about..
3 comments:
Maybe the guys who dated you are interested in only having your company and hence do not mind where the location is, as long as you are there with them. Thats why they dun mind to go anywhere and ask if you have a preference. Just like you said, its not the activity but the company.
Also if a couple can only go through good times and not happy times, then something is seriously wrong. Just look at your folks, I do not think they got to where they are today without some hardships. Maybe the right one has not come yet for you.
Lastly I think its really good that you can accept living within your means. Many girls out there like to hint to their man about having nice things and all. But you really need to know your man and what he can and cannot provide. Most men will try their best to give their loved ones what they ask for, cos when their loved ones are happy, they are happy. Sometimes there can be a negative effect when you "wish" for something and he knows he cannot give it to you.
Just my two cents.
Peace out.
Gambette ne~ No pain no gain!
I reckon it'd be hard to be my man.. Material is not I am looking for... I'm looking for a man who can give me lotsa emotion support... Sad to say I have yet to find the guy who can provide me with that... Haa... Now... Do I or do i not sound like an emotional wrack? Maybe that explains y I am still single? *lol*
Twin: pain very pain... so scared of that pain...Dun wan can? ekekek
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