Had a meeting at iShop today and had lunch at the hong kong cafe at the second floor. Food there was very nice and it was comfort food for all of us. Then we stayed there for quite a while to bitch about things partly because it was raining. Even thou we are just a bunch of colleagues working at different units but we have alot of things to talk about.
Since my last 2 posts revolved around relationships, this sorta gave me the inspiration towards this post. Relationships starts mostly when a couple has everything to talk about under the skies. Started off as friends who have many things to talk about. Just like best friends. The most perfect scenerio is ofcourse for couples to be like best friends after all if a couple were to go into a relationship, they would prolly have the idea of spending the rest of their lives together. But sad to say that relationships too start off as lust, yeh things happened after sex.
It just struck me that sometimes somehow communication breakdown along the way for these so called best friends couple. So does being in a relationship complicate things so much or is it that topics that can be discussed/ talk about run out eventually?
The big question is how does a couple started as best friends who were able to talk about everything and anything end up having nothing to say to each other? I mean shouldn't the kind of closeness between a couple be higher than that of best friends? Can best friends turn into best couple eventually? Or is it better that they stay as best friends?
Does love really complicate things so much that things turn otherwise?
3 comments:
U know whats the secret to communication?
Talk about every little shit thing to each other and make it sound fascinating even if its just a plate of char kway teow. lol! Excuse me~ But not all couples start off as a "I have the whole world to tell you" lovey doves.
As witness, I started off with "Come let fight the shit out of each other" *cough*Loving*cough doves.
my ex once told me...he feels frustruated hearing me bitch about things because he cannot be there to solve problems for me...but to me i just needed a ear for me to bitch to... Guess thats when i stopped communicating with him for the fear of frustruating him...*rolleyes*
i used to be able to talk about everythin to my bf, until i "decided" to wrong him by liking another guy. note the inverted commas, i knew it was wrong, but i didn't stop myself. i may be the bitch in this situation, but with bf quite constantly bringing up the topic, i can't help but keep quiet, or shut him off. it's rather sad, dat i don't talk to my bf as much as i used to, but i just don't feel like it.
certain things or events have to happen before talk-about-everything becomes talk?-what-talk?.
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