While we cannot foget those lovey dovey sweet moments with that particular person from the past, we often fail to realise that - yeh maybe we really did break up for a good reason. Its really hard not to miss this person because he/she is really special in our heart for some reasons. But back to reality, is that person feeling the same as you? Or is it just a one sided affair on your part?
Then comes the 2nd scenerio, while you are harping on the wrong/ nasty stuff you did to that person from the past, feeling guilty and really bad over it. Have you given it a thot that the other party has forgotten all about what has happened and has gotten over what hurt you have caused and has moved on? Yep, without a doubt it feels sucky having caused hurt to that someone special, it might be a different ballgame to the other party altogether. Sometimes things are not really forgotten, just that we cannot recall what has happened or rather we refused to recall what has really took place.
一个人的过去不回被完全忘记， 只是一时想不起来罢了。
To me, its easier not to prolly to refuse to recall about something unhappy rather than to try to talk about it. I did that once after breaking up with my ex, I immersed myself at work refusing to think about what has happened. If it does not work out it doesn't. Its not that I don't care about him, its the way of me expressing my love for him. Crap excuse isn't it? I mean if he does not feel right about hanging on and if it makes him feel miserable, then letting him go is a better choice than to hang on to an unhappy him. But then on my end, I also feel that if I really matters to him, he would have choosen to stay and work things out rather than to give everything up. Well... No doubt its contradicting, maybe he mite be feeling the same way as I do, if he mattered to me I would not have given up without a fight. To date, there isn't a point on harping over such losses, but to move on.
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