relationships after marriage?

I had this conversation with one of my colleagues. She was the first person who told me she and her late husband still maintained courtship with each other while being married with 3 kids. They would have dinner with their kids and then go out at 10pm hang out watch a move, have a drink 2 - 3 days a week.

While she is in the late forties, widowed but filled with memories of her husband.

Coming back to reality. Most of my friends grumbled about not having a life after marriage. I reckon its all laziness and all full of nonsensical excuses. For I'm someone who believes that dating does not stop after marriage. Married couples too can go out on dates.

Another thing that backed up my theory, I was watching a Korean variety show, this married couple have total respect for each other. Not only that they do not fart in front of each other like in the days they were dating. The wife actually does her big business outside of their marital home! (well this part is a little bit over for me...)

Those of you who mite rebuke me..(Yep I know who you are and you know who you are) You wouldnt understand life of a married person. You know there are a thousand to do things on our list who is so free to go about partoring. YOU got siao bor?

My question to you back is Y NOT? Its all about spending quality time together. Whatever happened to those days where you used to go to the supermarket together for fun? What happened to all those days where you used to take leisure walks at the park. Whatever happened to those days where the hubby take the wife (back then Girlfriend) to track days? Doing house work together can be fun too. Hubby can mop the floor while wifey can vacuum or sweep before hubby does the moping.

Well.. Getting married doenst kill your social / love life. Its all you to you to stop whining n start making things work before the marriage starts breaking apart.