SDG = SundayGal(me)
F = Friend
SDG:
somtimes i dun understand y u r so anal, i can say things that are pretty mean too but i choose not to
F:
oh??????? really? you can measure the way mean was just joking.. and you had presume that i was personal attack?
SDG:
wad ever... sorry that i brought it up
F:
I am sorry too.. I thought u are in good mood to play with..unfortunate thing do happen. and next time please dun compare me with an anal.. I smell nicer and cuter than that
At this point I was like ??!!!?!?!? WTH? Smell nicer and cuter than that? Where did she get the idea that I meant to say that she looks like an anus?!?!?!
SDG:
Figure of speech... not comparing
F:
watever it is.. u are good in your statement.. let me ask you by letting your friend feel smally and frail is it part of your job?
OH MY GAWD!
SDG:
it doesnt mean smelly where on earth did u get that idea from?
F:
i mean by correcting me.. u are saying your friend as like a pain of ur arse.. that it make you feel any better? is like this damn whole world u can correct pple and pple can't correct u and when pple comment abt u they are like anal..
Still feeling ?!?!?!?! so I asked.. Afterall, it would not hurt to ask questions and clarify things when in doubt rite?
SDG:
i dun understand what u r tryin to say.... when did i correct u? or when did u correct me in this conversation
F:
i say you had compare me or even put as an anal.. and you say is a figure of speech.. that is what you think it is.. but for me is seem like an insult.... just like how u feel when i say u have winkles at the edge of your eyes you get it?????
It all started with F asking how I found someone's blog and I was being cheeky and said I wasn't going to tell. F called me old turtle.. and My reply was "not as old as you" , which was the truth F is older than me by a couple of months and F said I had wrinkles at the edge of my eye... Yeh so what? It adds character to my face... Ho ho ho... So I told F not to be so anal... Hmmm... What is more insulting?
SDG:
i didnt compare u as anal(anus that's the meaning F has perceived I think at this point of time)
F:
exactly! I am not an anal so dun classified me as same as an anal
SDG:
u r anal
So I checked out the meaning on Merriam Webster for F.
SDG:
http://www.merriam-webster.com/cgi-bin/dictionary?book=Dictionary&va=anal b : of, relating to, characterized by, or being personality traits (as parsimony, meticulousness, and ill humor)
F:
I am sorry.. I see as a asshole on this... and now see.. we have communication breakdown over here... I find that our conversation is meaningless..
So why is F still going on and on? I have no idea... Read on....
F:
just like the pot saying to the kettle you are black
Interesting analolgy... Pot calling the kettle black... Ummm... Interesting way to put it... You see my friends are cute!
F:
so am i suppose to react like this " Yahoooooooo my best call me anal"
SDG:
it doesnt mean the same thing as u think it is! its just a figure of speech
F:
i ask 10 pple who feed back to me is asshole
SDG:
look at the dictionary then
They might mean the same thing biologically. But when used in the context of another person they have totally meanings! Guess this is the beauty of language! GAWD DAMNNIT!
This is what Merriam Webster have for the 2 words!
Anal:
of, relating to, characterized by, or being personality traits (as parsimony, meticulousness, and ill humor)
Asshole:
is a usually vulgar : a stupid, incompetent, or detestable person
F:
Current definitions for anal: #1 Pertaining to, or situated near, the anus; as, the anal fin or glands. dun bring in some American idea
Now it has a difference in every country?! So in Singaporean context, anal / asshole = same shit hole? For goodness's sake! That is NOT anal that is an ANUS!
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(added 29 october 2005)
Yes Friend! I know I am Singaporean! What I meant by Singaporean COntext is those people who told you being anal = you look like anus/asshole, smells funky. Oh yeh, also when you said do not throw you some American idea remember? And dun tell me you scored full marks on the anal/ asshole/anus area, I stressed that this is a figure of speech and same word is used different in different context.
They might mean the same thing biologically. But when used in the context of a person they have totally meanings! Guess this is the beauty of language! GAWD DAMNNIT!
I didn't mean to get so personal with you. But what you said on msn yesterday was simply out of the point. Oh, by the way I now know that you are good with asses.
One last example! If you still dun understand this then forget about it dun come to me telling me about ur bio point of view anymore cuz mentioned it that above a few times!
example 1:
You are anal. = You are an uptight person, always had to have the last word.
example 2:
You like anal sex. = if you mean it in the anal sex manner you like to take it in the butt(up in your ass).
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