Found this picture on post secrets, couldn't help but feel sad. Been talking to a friend of mine whom I have always regarded as a brother. He was telling me that he is going to get a divorce soon, initiated by his wife. I've been asking him to seek help in mending the marriage, all he told me was they do not love each other anymore. Infact he felt more like a friend towards her than a husband, why not let each other go?
Well... To be frank this marriage started at a wrong foot, they did not get married for the right reason, from what I have gathered, they got married because they needed to buy a flat to move out! Then I told my friend, the reason why his wife was willing to marry him in the first place dispite having second thoughts about the uncertainties was prolly because she loves him, and the very same reason for initiating a divorce could be the same reason. For sure women are usually very sensitive towards how their men feel even not being told. It could be that she could sense that my dear friend was feeling trapped. Knowing him for a couple of years, I know that he is not the kind who can settle down easily.
Maybe it's really easier to let go and start afresh with someone else than to fix a problem. Doesn't marriage mean anything to people anymore? What happened to "till death do us part"? If vows exchanged are not taken seriously, why have them in the first place?
I'll let you go I'll let you fly. Why do I keep asking why? I'll let you go, now that I found.... A way to keep somehow... More than a broken vow
2 comments:
For some is rash decisions but I believe some went in without knowing what to expect and who would have known that such a happy occasion be a life changing experience for them.
i just cant help but feel sad for my friends, one by one getting divorced most of them step into marriage for the wrong reasons. It takes alot of committment from both parties, i dont think anyone should step into a marriage when not ready give.
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