How many wrong ones to get it right? Not many people are that lucky to get it right the first time round, marrying their childhood/high school sweet heart. Some went through a dozen before finding the right one. Breaking up is the hardest thing to do in a relationship especially when one gets abit more attached. After all the wrong ones you will start to wonder when the right one will start to swing by. We sometimes blame fate for messing around with our lives.
There's so much heart breaks that a person can take. If this was a test in the life of a person, then what is the reason for some people to get away without a heart break and finding the right one just at the first go? Well, some people thought that it is not that fortunate that they found the person just at the first time round simple because they do not get to be with others and try how a relationship with other people might feel like, they feel that they are missing out, which in my opinion it is silly. Anyway people will never be contented with what they have most of the time. It is until they realised that they might lose the very precious thing they have then they treasure it and in many cases only 3 words await them - its too late!
It is true that no two persons have the exact same personality. Opposites attract, the person you might end up with is a different person to you altogether, what you are not, I supposed that makes a compete person out of you. If this statement is really true what about couples who fight all the time? Clearly they are different, a relationship needs a lot of compromises, committment, respect, honesty and communication. How much should we compromise? How much should we push ourselves before we decide that enough is enough, we don't have to put up with those shit?
No doubt every relationship is unique in different ways, there are some mistakes that we make over and over again. Maybe it's through failed relationships that we know exactly what we want from life and perhaps the next relationship.
That which does not kill you only makes you stronger. But then the very same thing which does not kill you sometimes makes you want to die!
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Honestly despite my fail relationship in the past, I did not realise what was important till I met Joe. Ooowwwww... I can't believe I said that~~ My hair is standing all over.
Sometimes it makes you realise when you met the one... other time its through failed ones that you realise what you really want I guess..
But to be honest la... I met so many men and I always thought those were the things that I want and need. But in the end when I'm in my current one, it was different from what I thought I even needed. Somehow maybe as we grow older, we have a more open mentality and learn to like each other for who we really are.
To be frank... Men I met ccame in all shape and sizes (aiyo i mean tall, short, fat, thin, and muscle muscle men (talking about physical builts not talking about the schwong!) there's this male ego in all of them physical built aside, hmmm maybe thats where the song can i be ur hero came from. at the end of the day then only they realise they need to find someone whom they can respect and vice versa. love, protect, provide for... someone whom they can spend the rest of their lives admiring... yeh thats another one of my many ideologies!
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